Go Past What You See...

Have you engaged in conversations that only are based on emotions and who the person is rather than what they do? I am finding it interesting in that the more I listen and feel what people are saying they then reveal more of their heart. If I were to ask them "what do you do?" then the conversation changes and they "act or perform" what they do.  But asking them questions that surrounds their heart and how they feel and what they see in life is the most amazing conversation I feel I experience.  This isn't small talk but "big talk"...per se.  Not sure that is even the two words that would match what I am trying to convey here.  But "big talk" in a very beautiful and emotional way.  I most recently have had conversations with people about their feelings on life and their ideas about food and the environment and their hearts.  When I do this I can feel the real person......try it out!!  It is really fun and then just before they leave ask them what they do?